Leena and Jon tied the knot on 12/21/21 on the Bodleian Library at Oxford College with an intimate marriage ceremony stuffed with easy trendy glamour.
Leena is Hindu, however as a substitute of a standard Indian marriage ceremony and for quite a lot of causes together with Covid, the couple opted as a substitute for an extremely trendy trendy, intimate metropolis marriage ceremony. Leena wore a sequin Made With Love Bridal robe and the couple booked Love My Gown really helpful marriage ceremony photographers, Taylor Hughes Pictures, to seize these stunning, atmospheric winter marriage ceremony photographs. Take pleasure in!
My costume was a Made With Love Bridal design, from The White Outlet in Portishead is a very pretty intimate boutique with pretty stylists. They construct you up with confidence however do not push you in the event you’re not 100% comfy in a costume. They hear however personal’t supply one thing you actually do not suppose is acceptable for you. Which is essential as marriage ceremony clothes could be costly!
I had three visits within the house of six weeks. The costume was made for me, then tailor-made additional. tremendous simple I’d positively advocate visiting them, in addition they have an outlet retailer so there are many choices for various budgets. however most significantly they have been type and understanding stylists and had beautiful designs to selected from.
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I noticed the costume on instagram, and simply thought that is very me. It was trendy, sparkly (excellent for a winter night marriage ceremony), and as quickly as I noticed the costume I knew what sort of hair and make-up I needed (which is admittedly not my factor). I needed to be a contemporary bride in a white costume, one thing I by no means noticed myself as.
I simply beloved the glint of the costume and the silhouette. The photographers captured it so nicely too. The remainder of my look was quite simple however glamorous and nonetheless felt very very like myself. I had a good friend pick my predominant earrings for me, she has nice style and is coaching to be a marriage planner herself so I trusted her selection. I additionally wore some diamonds that my grandparents gifted me years in the past.
Because the costume was the principle focus of my look, and needed some daylight photographs we had our marriage ceremony images outdoors which was freezing so I had my pretty white swimsuit blazer to put on which I used to be initially going to put on as a substitute of a costume. Which topped off my trendy bride look (for outdoor).
I did not put on a veil – the costume was completely backless and my hair appeared too good to cowl it up. I thought of ‘wings’ however determined it did not want it. Plus folks stored standing on my costume so a veil or wings would have been a foul concept!
Sneakers & Equipment
I wore some diamond hooped earrings that have been gifted to me by my maternal grandparents and likewise a diamond eternity ring, and I had my paternal grandfather’s signet ring with a photograph of him inside my bag the entire day.
I genuinely cannot keep in mind the place I purchased the footwear from, who horrible is that? They have been actually fairly, cheap and fairly cozy, I’m not actually a shoe lady, however I did purchase a brand new Chanel bag for the day.
The Proposal & Engagement Ring
We met the quaint approach, in a bar, in Soho London. Though we grew up 25 minutes away from one another we met right here. A couple of months later we went on our first date, the one purpose we are able to keep in mind when it was, is as a result of Andy Murray received his first Wimbledon.
The engagement was positively untraditional, like us as a pair. It was a case of let’s get married quickly (in a 12 months ish). My household are conventional Hindu Indians and so we needed there to be an engagement ring to make it official to have the ability to share it with household and buddies. Dovi Fehler aka @londonjeweller, designed an engagement ring based mostly on an concept I would had in my head for years.
Attributable to covid, it took a 12 months to have the ring constituted of begin to end however 22nd June 2021 was the official engagement day and the marriage occurred six months later.
Make-up was the wonderful Phoebe Hayter and Hair was the wonderful Antonia Krieger of Elle Au Naturel. Each are so proficient! and took some time to search out the precise folks as I am very fussy with my hair and make-up and I knew precisely what I needed the look to be. Hair and make-up was excellent, and neither budgeted all day.
We each have been born and raised in Oxford so getting married right here was full circle in a approach plus it’s an iconic metropolis which we spent lots of our childhood strolling across the centre.
We really initially determined to get married within the registry workplace in Oxford, we weren’t into the concept of a ‘huge fancy’ marriage ceremony or making the day a giant deal. BUT I noticed micro marriage ceremony images of an outdated good friend of mine from Oxford the summer season prior across the grounds of The Bodleian and requested her in regards to the venue. As soon as we noticed some extra pictures, we determined to go on a tour of the positioning with the marriage crew.
We each are into literature, movie and gothic structure, and with such a wealthy historical past of those topics, and a few wonderful picture alternatives, as soon as we had the viewings we knew this was the venue. It was simply as beautiful inside (regardless that we mentioned we weren’t really bothered about having a particular venue to start with) because it was outdoors.
So many well-known writers studied right here; TV exhibits and movies are shot on the Bodleian which was additionally a enjoyable side that we may share with our friends.
Our visitor checklist was 14 folks, so the marriage itself was small so it was simple for us to liaise with all of the suppliers on our personal. Apart from they’d all labored collectively on many occasions so we felt assured within the assist that was being offered from all of them.
My father walked me down the aisle—we each have been crying, rather a lot. Do not snort however, our entrance piece was a bit of music from Lord of The Rings. It is actually emotional however completely happy on the identical time and I simply could not think about strolling down the aisle with some other music as soon as I would heard it.
We determined to maintain the vows brief and candy as we have been each nervous about getting the phrases flawed. We stored spiritual and cultural features out of the marriage as Jon’s household are a mixture of atheist and Church of England Christians and my household are Hindu, so we simply stored each elements out and had a civil ceremony.
For our rings – we needed to go together with an unbiased, Oxford jeweler and the coated market was the primary place we went to as we each keep in mind John Gowling Jewelers being a protracted standing enterprise there.
It took so lengthy to search out the precise photographer. We have been really helpful Jack and Jade of Taylor-Hughes Pictures and as quickly as we noticed their instagram pictures, it was precisely what we have been in search of.
We’re each into images and for the marriage we actually needed a powerful trendy fashion with candid photographs being a spotlight vs the everyday group photographs extra posed photographs – and we love black and white photographs.
Fortunately Jack and Jade have been obtainable for our date! We additionally positively underestimated how necessary marriage ceremony pictures are. They received these photographs of the small particulars that have been necessary for us to recollect the work that was put into the day in addition to wonderful candid ones.
The pictures have been greater than we may ever have imagined.
Guide Jack and Jade!
Particulars & Decor
With it being winter, and we weren’t having a standard Hindu Indian marriage ceremony – we needed to maintain it elegant, easy however magical with the decor. And as our marriage ceremony was held simply earlier than Christmas, we did not need it to appear to be a Christmas social gathering, so we selected a shade scheme taken from the engagement ring which included white (diamond), gold, and inexperienced (emerald).
Initially, the plan was the registry workplace, so no flowers, lights, or perhaps a costume however a white girls’s tailor-made swimsuit. I feel as a result of I had genuinely by no means thought of a marriage in my head, Indian or western I had no clue so conserving it to the naked minimal felt proper. However then we booked the Bodleian and realized ‘naked minimal’ would not work.
We positively needed it to look bespoke, trendy, elegant, however timeless. We needed our friends to have the ability to see our style/fashion and be enthusiastic about all the main points.
For us it is all about particulars that create the whole look eg the cover lighting over the desk, the handwritten identify playing cards and the sunshine up water glasses, the architectural ceilings, the number of flower preparations on the desk and so forth. However as soon as the venue was booked , the imaginative and prescient simply grew to become tremendous clear.
The interiors of the Bodleian are very grand and ornate as they’re and the marriage was small so we did not want to fret about overpowering the options, however the reverse, not having the rooms really feel too naked.
The flowers we’d hold all pure white, with a little bit of greenery from eucalyptus to maintain it extra trendy winter like reasonably than Christmas. Our florist was Fabulous Flowers – my household has recognized for years and years, so I had whole religion in them. At our assembly, we instructed them the colour scheme and the kind of flowers we actually needed. I particularly needed a lot of candles to carry heat and comfortable lighting to each rooms, because it was going to be darkish at 5pm which is when the ceremony was taking place. White roses, hydrangea, and peonies, as peonies weren’t in season they really helpful ranunculus that are simply as stunning to be the principle flowers within the preparations. We specified that the tablescape was actually necessary to us and going to be the showstopper and we needed the desk preparations to be taken away by the friends to take house as a momento.
Jon, my mom and myself, designed and handcrafted all of the stationery, together with the save the dates, invites and desk menus and identify playing cards. We’re fairly a artistic bunch!
Reception & Eating
We really aren’t actually into dancing, and for a room stuffed with simply 16 folks we did not really feel the necessity to. The entire occasion wasn’t a full day, it was solely 4 hours, and we needed to do what we thought was extra necessary – eat!
So no first dance, although we did a pretend ‘stroll down the aisle as if we have been leaving’ to Fleetwood Mac’s In all places.
We did not actually have a funds, we had an estimate, and we spent double, however that was as a result of we ended up having a venue and every thing that comes together with it, catering, flowers and so forth, and I additionally ended up having a marriage costume. However we spent round £16okay, and this included the marriage costume, hair and make-up for myself, my mum and my sister, lodge stays, and we bought the cutlery, charger plates, and consuming glasses ourselves.
Phrases of Wedded Knowledge
I’d not have left getting a costume so late. Even in the event you do not suppose you need one, go strive them on as early as potential so you may get rid of the ‘what if?’ in your thoughts; aside from that, no, we’d not have executed something in another way.
I feel you will need to do what you need, and actually strive to not waste power on pleasing different folks in your special occasion. It’s actually onerous with social media evaluating lately too, on prime of household and buddies opinions on how issues look, ought to be executed and the way a lot it’s best to spend. This could actually cloud your selections and imaginative and prescient of what’s best for you each.
Be actually clear along with your planner/suppliers on what you need, you might be paying some huge cash, and be sure to get what you need.
At all times have again up choices to your concepts, reminiscent of tablescaping, typically concepts you could have do not work in actuality, so at all times good to moodboard, or ask your suppliers to create visuals for you (moodboard or flower association examples).
Do any food-tasting as early as you may, and as many as you may; with Covid, we have been solely allowed one, and we made just a few modifications to the menu after however weren’t in a position to do a second tasting earlier than the marriage. A good friend of mine received married in summer season 2020 and so they did not have a meals tasting in any respect.
Invite who you need, put on what you need, do what you need. You’ll have these recollections ceaselessly of your huge day, so be egocentric and luxuriate in yourselves.
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Annabel is the founding father of Love My Gown. She has a ardour for images, strolling, yoga, nature, and likes to assist proficient artists and artistic companies. In 2013, she grew to become a printed writer. Annabel lives in rural North Yorkshire together with her husband and enterprise accomplice Philip, their two daughters Eska and Leanora and menagerie of furry hounds. Annabel helps Philip within the operating of the household flower farm at at Moonwind Flowers. She can also be co-founder of What About Weddings.